Wednesday, October 20, 2010

First facial

 I experienced my first professional facial last night at Burke Williams spa.  My wonderful sis-in-laws, Denise and Marci, surprised me with a spa night for my birthday.  It was fabulous.

We marinated and talked for an hour in the spa while replenishing fluids with fruity, cucumber water.  Then I was whisked away by Mimi the aesthetician for an hour-long facial.  It didn't seem like an hour at all.  The experience was great, but I've decided a full facial is the yin and yang of basic spa treatments all wrapped in one hour.  The first half hour was blissful relaxation as a prelude to the pain of cleaning out my larger-than-I-wish-they-were pores.  Mimi applied a variety of pleasant-scented cleansers, exfoliating scrubs, and an extra Vitamin C peel (since it was my birthday) to my face and neck.  Adding the neck, arm and feet massage, with a parafin wax treatment on my hands just for fun, and I almost asked her to just leave me there for a nap.

I knew the next part was not going to be pleasant, but did she really have to relax me to the point of sleeping just to hurt me?  Those who have experienced a facial know, the next step to a refreshed face was the extractions.  Extractions.  It's such a nice way to say squeezing the guts out of your pores until tears fall down your cheeks.  Literally.  I think one of the little folds in my ear filled with tears while I was lying there at Mimi's mercy.  "Beauty hurts" is not a lie.  My nose is still tender.

In the end, I really did feel fabulous and walked out of there committed to take better care of myself.  I splurged on a few skin care products to help me out.  I'm feeling the effects of the sun and getting older, and I don't think my under $10 products from the drugstore are going to cut it anymore.  I have a reputation to uphold you know.  My Mom and Grandma look amazing at their ages because of how well they have taken care of their skin.  Hopefully there's some magic in the family genes that passed down to me too.  It's my Mom-mode that puts my needs last which usually get forgotten or sacrificed because of lack of time and energy on my part.

That needs to change.

I'm trying.

This was a good baby step.

Thanks 'Nise and Marci!

Oh, the picture at the top?  That's the best my cell phone would do of the pretty floating rose petals while we waited to eat at Amber after the spa.  My Man doesn't like Indian food, so when Marci suggested this place I was all for it.  I could ramble on about all the different curries, clove, cinnamon, cardamom, mint, lentils, and many strong flavors I love in Indian food.

The meal we shared was outstanding.  We tried some delicious potato and goat cheese appetizers, a chicken kabob dish, and my favorite, a coconut-curry chicken with rice.  We all wanted more Naan bread to soak up the left over sauce it was THAT good.  So flippin' delicious!  The flavors were incredible and we had a great time sharing good food.  I could have taken a little more heat even.  I thought of my Grandpa P who loved eating and sharing food with his family from all over the world.  He passed on that love to me too.  

The three of us have decided to make spa night a tri-annual (or quarterly) thing.  Might I suggest we share an Indian meal every time too?!  :)

Monday, October 18, 2010

Halloween rush

So much is happening in the next 2 weeks that I almost feel paralyzed as to where to begin.  Halloween costumes need to be finished and I haven't even sat down at the sewing machine yet.  The house is in major need of a purging that has to be done by next Thursday.  I can't say why yet. ;)  The Mister's parents are moving in a few weeks too, and we have an entire shed full of kids clothes, dusty wedding presents (how bad do we need those), and misc. stuff in their side yard that has to go.  I don't think I can make it all happen.  Add in a Kindergarten field trip, school parties, some babysitting, kids activities, and the regular chores and I'm back to feeling paralyzed. Isn't life fun?  I really am happy and trying to take deep breaths and enjoy the ride.

We have a special visitor coming next weekend.  The Mister has been driving the kids crazy with his cryptic clues and hints that we all need to get the house and things in order for this special visit.  If he keeps talking about it I think they will explode.  It's gonna be great though.  I'm still really freaking out!!

My husband rocks!  He surprised me and bought this vintage skirt for me.  It's going to be part of my Halloween costume and an awesome skirt to wear when I feel like dressing up a bit.  Did I mention the flowers are lined with sequins?  Beautiful.  So not my style in my younger days, but I'm finding my taste in everything is starting to lean toward more daring, artsy and colorful things.  Color makes life so much more fun.

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Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Logan and his buddy Dallin played Batman today in his room while I put up some Halloween decorations.  As I tuned in to what they were saying I heard the following;

D:  "Logan let's play something because my Mom and Dad will be back soon, and I will be so sad if we don't play."

They started a battle with Batman toys.....

L:  "Dallin, you be a 'psychiologist.'  A psych-i-ologist (not a regular psychologist) is a person who rescues animals."

Hilarious.

Wednesday, October 06, 2010

Reality hits

*Big Sigh*  Back to the same old routine today.  Reality actually hit last night, after the Mister and I got back from our weekend away, when it was time to feed the family dinner.  What?  You mean I couldn't just walk with my Man to a take-out place of our choosing for dinner?  I had to provide a meal for more than the two of us?  It was a wake up call that our lazy weekend was over.  So I did what any recovering Mother that wasn't quite back into Mom-mode would do and laid out the cold cereal for dinner.  Mr. Cooper actually asked for chicken soup instead.  Figures.   

I did miss our young-ins though.  I don't know if they missed US much.  They all had wonderful weekends at Grandparents/Aunts and Uncles houses.  We heard about finding a snake in Grandpa Dave's backyard, Jessie's manicure with Grandma Grace, crafting with Grandpa Bob, a pizza party, watching cartoons, sleeping in Aunt Tori's old room, playing with Uncle Sam, pillow fights, movies, and yummy food.  They had a great weekend too.  Syd seems older and sassier after being away from her for two measly days.  They change so fast it's really not fair.  

Syd has a special place in her heart for Grandma Evie.  She didn't look back when she drove away with Grandma Evie on Friday afternoon.  When we got home yesterday Aunt 'Nisey told us just how much Syd likes Grammy Evie.  Syd stayed with 'Nisey Saturday afternoon while Toby and Grandparents N were at Nutcracker rehearsal.  Syd looked at 'Nisey while they were hanging out and exclaimed, "I'm going to call you Grammy Evie!  Grammy Evie, will you get me a drink of water?"  It was Gramma Evie this and that the rest of the afternoon until Syd fell asleep under baby Maddie's play gym.  

Last night while I was tucking Syd into bed she looked at me sideways, paused, and said, "Mom, I'm going to call you Grammy Evie, okay?!  G'night Gramma Evie.   Wait, can you get me a drink of water in a sicky (sippy) cup with a lid on it, please?  Thanks Gramma Evie!"  The girl is pure entertainment.

We had a short Family Home Evening lesson, caught up on what everyone did over the weekend and then split up to get ready for bed.  My little chef, Logan, and I made oatmeal chocolate chip cookies while everyone else showered and jammied, and then it was off to bed for the chillies.  

You caught that right?  Cold cereal and cookies for dinner.  The kids want us to go away more often. ;)

Friday, October 01, 2010

They say it's your birthday

Yep, the fam all wished me Happy Birthday this morning.  It's a good thing I don't get too hyped up for my own birthday because it's not going to feel much like a special day.  Don't get me wrong.  It's gonna be a good day, but I'm fighting "why does this have to be done/have to happen ON my birthday" grumpiness.  There are loads of laundry to put away, a dirty house yelling at me, and oh yeah, CRAMPS!  Aaargghhh!  Even Mother Nature, Tampax-style, couldn't pass up breaking her usual schedule so I have something else to worry about.  Not to mention the extra kick in hormones that are making it really hard to be happy.  I just want to punch something.  It wouldn't be as big of a deal if the Mister and I hadn't planned a getaway for this weekend.  Now I get to enjoy my time alone with my Man, cramps, headache and bloating.  Blech.  Blargh.  Blah.  I know it's a trivial detail in the big scheme of things, and I feel slightly lame for complaining about it.  We've been looking forward to this little vacation for awhile, so the ideal weekend I had pictured in my head is now crowded by an unwelcome third party!  

Okay, it feels better to have that off my chest.  I'll stop whining now and get to work.  Gotta go pack everyone's bags for our weekend adventures, get the birds ready to stay with Grandma E, and clean up the house with the time I have left.  I really am excited to get away for awhile. 

Making snickerdoodles into the wee hours of the morning for Logan to take to school.  Look, I am exactly 30-something years old!