Wednesday, October 31, 2007

the great pumpkin cometh

We started a new family tradition this year for Halloween. This Halloween night the Great Pumpkin will make his appearance, Santa style, and trade the kids candy for a special surprise. Considering we racked up enough candy in less than an hour to give any adult a clogged artery, it will be a nice way to get the candy out of the house without complaints from the rug rats. They got to eat their fill tonight and save some of their favorites for later. The rest is going bye-bye. Dave dumped the loot on the living room floor after chillies were asleep and started sorting it to see what we wanted to keep. It instantly reminded me of trick-or-treating as a kid. Me and my brothers would come home and dump and sort the exact same way. Who can forget the trading and mandatory Dad tax too.

Jessie was excited about the Great Pumpkin idea. While trick-or-treating tonight she would stop every few houses and say, "This is going to be a lot of candy for the Great Pumpkin!" or "the Great Pumpkin will give us a big surprise for all this candy."

Trick-or-treating was a new experience for Logan and Toby this year because we went to a party on Halloween night last year. We drove up a few blocks to say hi to Grandpa Dave and walk around his neighborhood. After the first two houses we trick-or-treated at, Toby looked at me and said, "Mom, this is fun!" By the end of that block, Toby said, "Mom, this is lots more fun than a Halloween party!"

Logan was a trooper. He walked most the way, even when his little bag was loaded down with goodies. His modus operandi was hilarious. He would walk up to the door with Jessie and Toby and when the homeowner would come to the door he would step UP into the house and stretch his cute little hands up with his bag. We kept reminding him to stay down on the doorstep, but he didn't get it. As soon as the candy was dropped into his bag he would turn around, stop, and fish THAT piece out of his bag to show Mom or Dad. "Look Mom, that lady gave me a loddypop!" (lollipop) he said. After a quick reminder to say thankyou he would turn around and say thanks then be on his way to catch up with Jessie and Toby who rarely looked in their bag until we got home.

I almost forgot- we even met the wicked witch while trick-or-treating. She lives on Bradley Street in Fremont and she is not afraid to drop the G#$ D@*$ bomb in front of innocent little kids. We made the mistake of letting our little ones walk up to the wicked witch's door in back of a group of older kids. The lady opens her door and immediately starts yelling at the older kids in front to get out of her flower bed. The dumb kids didn't move so she got even more belligerent. By the time all the older kids were leaving, Dave was left standing at her door with our sweet chillies while she continued to yell down her sidewalk. I walked up by then and she was still yelling at Dave about dumb parents not keeping their kids in line when in fact our kids and Dave were waiting patiently on her stupid walkway. We should have refused her dumb candy and made her apologize to our kids who were clueless as to what was going on. Toby summed it up best as they walked away, "Why did she do that, Dad? Why was that lady doing that?" Good question Toby. She shouldn't have been handing out candy at all. Yet another experience that teaches me that trying to be Christlike and turn the other cheek does NOT mean letting ignorant people walk all over me, or my sweet kids.

Here's a few pics from our ward Halloween party at church last Saturday. I think it was a success. There were a few things that went wrong and stuff I would have changed, but I'm always hard on myself, being 'in charge' and all. A HUGE thank you to all who volunteered to help with the food, decorations, preparations, set-up and clean-up. Jen and Sami- the food was awesome! Thanks for volunteering to take that big assignment. We had a salad bar, nachos, and potluck soup bar. People brought an amazing variety of soups; chili, chicken noodle, chowders, even jambalaya. Perfect for a cool fall evening.


We also had a ghoulish dessert contest which was so much fun. These are Denise's pumpkin with cream cheese frosting Mummy's. They were delicious and dairy-free which is a bonus for our family. Dad Bennett and Sam made rice crispy mummies that won a prize.


We had 2 bounce houses, a pinata, games, a costume parade/contest and trick-or-treating for the kids to round out the rest of the night. Dave and Tom made a sweet pirate plank and foam weapons for the Pirate Plank Duel that everyone LOVED. Thanks Denise for the idea. We didn't even get to the other little games we prepared for the kids because they all wanted to duel and time went by so fast.












































As you can see, we were the clan from Peter Pan this year. Almost every year since Jessie was born we do a family theme for costumes. It's tons of fun and everyone looks forward to what we will come up with every year. This year, the Hansen's in our ward took the challenge to beat us for the best dressed family. They looked awesome! All the boys dressed like Elvis, complete with wigs and polyester jumpsuits, and the girls wore pink poodle skirts and cat-eye glasses. We both had fun with the friendly competition the week before the party, and even our little kids kept the costumes a secret. The contest judges graciously called it a tie and we both had to get on stage and do a mini-show as our characters. Me and the kids went across the stage singing 'Following the Leader' while Captain Hook chased us and Coop the Crocodile ran after him. The audience got a kick out of that. I didn't get a good family picture which is a bummer after all the work I put into the costumes. I might try to talk the fam into dressing up during daylight to get a couple shots.



Mom & Dad Bennett and Sam rockin' the Star Wars theme together.














Aunt Denise had a dual-purpose costume. With us she was Tiger Lily and with cowboy hubby she was his Indian. Thanks again Denise for all your help. We rock!

What's shakin'?

WE WERE! Last night we had a 5.6 magnitude earthquake in San Jose that sent us rolling. Dave was just taking his shirt off to get in the shower. I was folding clothes on the couch. Coop and Toby were with me in the living room watching the Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown. Jessie was gone at the church for Roadshow practice. Suddenly the ceiling started shaking and I figured our upstairs neighbors were doing something crazy up there. When the shaking got louder, the windows started vibrating, and my feet were moving I knew it was an earthquake. I scooped up Coop and joined Dave in the doorway. Toby was too scared of Max (our scared parrot who flew down to the floor) to get off the computer chair and come to us. Just then the quake stopped, but Dave and I both felt like we were still moving for a good minute or two. It is such a strange feeling to have the ground moving underneath you. We went outside for a minute in case there was another quake, and the pool water was a mini wave pool.

We haven't felt an earthquake that large in this area for a long time. Dave lived here for the big one in '89 but this was my first quake over 4.0. I really hope and pray we don't have a big one while we live in these old apartments. I'm not sure how they would hold up.

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

BUSY

What a busy time of year this is! Since my last update Dave and I celebrated our 9th wedding anniversary. It didn't hit me until I realized the big #10 is only a year away. Our time together is sailing by.

Two weekends ago we took the kids to the Pumpkin Festival in Half Moon Bay. I'm still mad at myself for not charging my camera battery the night before like I told myself to. The camera died on the drive over. It was probably better that way because we were so busy with keeping us all together and making sure the kids didn't break anything. After ditching the stroller at Marci's car and getting some food in the kids we had a good time. It was super crowded, hence the need to bail on the stroller. We saw some cool stuff, bought a Christmas present for the kids, and I spent some b-day $$ on cool wood jewelry. There is a huge pumpkin patch with hay maze that we were going to stop at on the way home, but the kids were all asleep by the time we passed it. Next year Dave and I will probably go to the Festival alone since it would be even harder with 4 kids. The plan is to spend the entire weekend by ourselves since it is the weekend of our 10th anniversary.

October is slipping away from me when I have so much to do this month. I am in charge of our church Halloween party this Saturday night and I'm starting to get nervous that everything won't be ready. Ever since we found out that baby #4 was on the way I have been on a mission to purge and simplify our home. Plans for a garage sale quickly formed as I started getting rid of a lot of stuff. So I picked the worst time ever, last weekend, to finally do the garage sale. It has sucked up a lot of the month sorting and getting ready.

The kids had mixed emotions about selling our stuff. Once me and Gramma Evie started sorting and pricing everything last Friday night Jessie wanted to go through all her toys and donate some things. She brought out a broken necklace and 25 cent popper toys that she wanted to sell for $1 each. Then, during the sale the next morning Jessie took back a stuffed bunny we had put out just as a little girl was looking at it to buy. Dave bought a rocking chair and ottoman at a garage sale a year ago that we don't have room for. It has been sitting in storage for months so we put it out to sell. Our funny J-bird got attached to it while we sat through a few slow times during the sale. She almost cried when she came back outside and found that I had sold it. I have to admit, for a split second I wished it didn't sell so she could keep rocking in it.

Logan was almost traumatized too. We put out our big, clunky octagon dining table to sell. Logan came out after Dave wheeled the table to the front lawn and pointed his finger back to our house saying, "Bring my table back!" Then after we explained we were selling it to buy a new table he said, "You NO sell our table!" So funny. That was his phrase of the day. Logan got his wish though. The table didn't sell, but I couldn't stand the thought of Dave dragging that beast back into the house. We left it out by the street. Hopefully someone will give it a new home.

Then there's silly Toby. Dave and I were basically running crazy from 7 AM to 10 AM. Unfortunately the kids had to fend for themselves in the house unless they wanted to come hang out with us. Toby did NOT want to come outside so Dave let him play RoboTech on the PlayStation. In the process he created a monster- Toby the video game freak. When Dave went in to turn it off after over an hour Toby would not stop asking to play more. The only thing that got him out to visit the daylight was a pair of headphones from a CD player that didn't sell. Toby climbed up on that octagon table and grooved to some tunes on Daddy's "music player"- as he calls it.

Even though Toby wasn't around for the garage sale it must have made an impression. The next day in church he blurts out at the end of Primary, "We had a garage sale yesterday!!" :) Lol! Our kids are funny!

Monday, October 01, 2007

30! No way!

20 minutes ago I entered the world on my Grandpa's birthday at 01:23 AM- in 1977. That math is correct. I turned 30 years old...... 20 minutes ago. I don't feel any older, but dang it if 30 doesn't SOUND old. I remember one specific conversation Dave and I had in his white mustang shortly after getting engaged. We talked about having our kids early and close together, so that we would be done by the time we were 30. Well, the 9 years since that conversation has flown by, and now I am 30 and pregnant with our 4th (and last) child. Crazy. The rest of my b-day was, unfortunately, disappointing. Dave had the day off but had to go into the office in the middle of the day. That kinda shot our plans to go out to lunch/shopping just the two of us because he got home way after lunch and the boys were tired. Instead I worked on church stuff while the boys (and Dave!) took a nap. Blah. I was trying really hard not to be a grump because the day just didn't go as planned. We went to the parents for family night/b-day party. Thanks everyone for the $moola$ and goodies. The new furniture I'm going to buy thanks you too. We left early, jammied the kids, and Aunt Denise watched them while Dave took me shopping. All in all, the day turned out okay...................but it still sucks to know I'm 30!

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

So I realized looking through the front page of this old blog that an entire month went by without a peep from me. Here's an update for the entire month of August/early September as I remember it from my camera.

Mom Bennett has been threatening to have a Bennett Band Night in their back yard for at least a year. We finally did it in August. Denise and new hubby Arnold, Dave and I and some family friends all got together for dinner, swimming and jammin' on the instruments until dark. We brought our keyboard, dusted off Tori's drum set and mostly listened to the guys play their guitars. The kids had a great night playing and swimming with Uncle Sam and friends.



















The annual Bennett camping trip to Pinecrest was a little different this year. Mom and Dad Bennett were in Philadelphia that week and we missed them. We bought Gram's tent trailer so we could take it up for a long weekend while Uncle Mark and Aunt Lita were there. Denise & Arnold, Marci & Donovan, Dan & Lauren, Tori, and cousin Nicole came up too. Our kids LOVED having so many Aunts and Uncles there to play with.

Our Pinecrest Top Ten (in no particular order)
1. Jessie and Toby swinging in the hammock and playing frisbee with their new friends in the campsite next to us. Logan playing with trucks in the dirt
2. Uncle Arnold taking the kids on 'buffalo hunts' around Pinecrest
3. Good food and roasting smores EVERY NIGHT, YUM!
4. Jessie and Toby playing with Dan & Lauren's dog, Simon -taking him on walks
5. Naps in the hammock
6. Fishing on Uncle Mark's boat (even though we didn't catch anything except a beautiful sunset)
7. Playing a new game, Bohnanza, with all the big kids
8. Late night chats around the campfire while sipping Peppermint tea and watching the meteor shower
9. Taking showers at Lauren's cabin and watching Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles movie
10. Selling the tent trailer the day we got back! "dirt-camping" as the kids call it, is not a vacation with soon-to-be 4 young kids. We will rent a cabin and visit the dirt before doing that again any time soon.
Jessie's birthday was the end of August. She turned 7. I feel old.Jessie still loves ponies and arts & crafts. She is such a good help to me around the house and with her little brothers. Reading, which she didn't enjoy last year, has gotten easier and now she likes reading bedtime stories to the family. She is so excited for her new baby sister coming in January. J loves telling jokes she hears at school or reads on the juice boxes. She's got a quick wit and knack for sarcasm- the little pickle. Math and Spelling are her strongest school subjects, but her favorite are recess (of course) and art. Her new thing is Barbie, which Dave and I said would not enter our home in multiples, yet they are here. They are better than those awful Bratz dolls which Jessie wanted, so we feel the compromise was worth it. She received a lot of clothes for school. Thank you family and friends! It's great having a child whose birthday comes right before the start of school.

J asked for a star birthday cake. You can see my attempt below. It turned out more like a flower or big sun. Pretty much a disaster but it tasted good. Let's just say I learned it is a lot harder than I thought to frost an odd-shaped cake and make it look good. It was also very last minute.

We went mini-golfing the day before J's birthday with both sides of the family. Jessie said she had a great birthday!
We got a 'courtesy call' from J's principal a couple days before school started to let us know they placed her in a 1/2 grade combo class for the year. I was not happy about it since she is in 2nd grade. Obviously, some of the other Mom's had the same fears I did because we had an impromptu class meeting with the teacher, principal and those parents who were there after the first day of school. After that meeting I feel better about how the year will play out. It is a compliment to Jessie that they picked her as being an independent worker, good listener and all-around good student for that class.